Here I am again...I have been pondering in so many things though I know I most choose one to talk about.  The weather is a very interesting phenomena in which brings a lot of the worst in people, besides driving. People are always complaining about it, it is too hot- too cold etc., and therefore they really never enjoy it or so it seems.  It almost makes me think that people are really never happy for "no reason", happiness is always attached to something or other. Maybe they have never thought about that concept...anyhow what is happiness? What do we know about happiness? Of course through the years many people, TV, media tell us that happiness is attached to something, it cannot happen by itself.  Examples: when you are sad people try to make you happy by buying you something or giving you something…Have you ever thought about how many times you thought what will make you happy? In fact many people say-if I had this---then I know I will be happy, and then what happens when they get it? Yes it is a temporary happiness until the next whim comes around. How long are we going to do it over and over again to realize that it is just a “merry go around”?  To me happiness is a choice, a choice that we make.  We can either choose happiness or sadness, when we are in that junction, what we always should remember is “who am I”? But of course before we can ask that question one has to already have spent some time getting to know who they truly are. Are we just a body… a mind? Spend some time knowing who and what you are…we spent more time worrying about what other people think of us, not realizing that the whole world is doing the same.  Who cares what they think of us, that is their problem.  We should be worry about what we think of them because there lays the answer to our problems. Spend time loving yourself, forgiving yourself, being nice to you. Find out why you envy others, why you dislike them, why you criticize them.  Could it be that they are somehow just a reflection of you? They either remind you of what you are or they behave the way you want to be. Anyhow back to happiness. Happiness is inside of you, you don’t have to go out looking for it, find it in something or spending your money to get it. It is a choice!. So put on some music that will make you feel good, take a nice hot bath, make yourself a delicious meal, learn something new.  Self-discovery is a wonderful way to spend your time. Dare to practice being happy for no reason, be a child again…start today to find out who you truly are, without the input of family, friends, media, TV. Be who you want to be, who you were born to be. A child of the Universe…Namastè